I do not know all the ways in which the universe conspires to determine my fate. Even the few of which I am aware, I may misinterpret them—viewing something as bad in my limited view, which may actually turn out to be better in the grand scheme. Or, focusing inordinately on these few, I may miss another of more importance. We are not, however, completely powerless, when it comes to our destinies. What can we control? What should we control? And what else is better left to be as it will?