How high
I dream
Until I wake
In a body
Unprepared
To jump up
To the heights
I dreamed of
August 13, 2021 at 03:41PM
How high
I dream
Until I wake
In a body
Unprepared
To jump up
To the heights
I dreamed of
August 13, 2021 at 03:41PM
In a nightmare it occurs to me
That I can become the scary thing myself
So I make myself light,
Float up somewhere near the ceiling,
And shriek high and loud
My victims get out of bed, terrified
And run through hallways in their nightgowns
Stumbling against the walls
I don’t actually mean to scare
I never wanted to be a scary thing
I just wanted to not be scared myself
So I try to float down from the ceiling
To tell my victims it’s okay
It’s just me and I’m not scary
But all that comes out is a shriek
And that’s when the nightmare
Became truly scary
July 19, 2021 at 11:18PM
It’s when I get into the nighttime nothing that I can’t remember a single thing about the day and the things I planned nothing really means anything in the night unable to see in the dark dreaming up free dreams as many as you could ever want with no cost of admission and no need to make money to pay for them after the sun has set there’s a brief time when the mind starts to wonder if it will ever rise again and somehow thinking that it might not nothing is off-limits as if it were really your last night to live and nothing seems impossible but you have to hurry while this feeling lasts because as the sun starts to rise and the sky brightens you will be sure that there is another day to come.
Originally written on: March 8, 2021
I dreamt that my mom wanted to eat at an expensive restaurant. I didn’t want to go because I knew I would be paying for it. We ended up going. It was my mom, one of my brothers, and myself. We sat down at a table covered in a white cloth in the middle of the room. The table had five chairs. We had started eating our bread when another woman and her son came to join our table. I was confused at first, but then assumed that it must be this way at fancy restaurants, where people sit together. Almost immediately, the woman pulled a crystal sphere out of her purse to display her wealth for us. She was explaining the type of mineral of which the sphere was made when her son made a comment about how she was always showing off. I agreed with him, out loud. The lady was offended. I didn’t care. My mom was embarrassed. We left the restaurant. The bill for the bread alone was twenty-five dollars.
Recorded in dream journal on: August 27, 2020
I dreamt that I was back at our family home in the cul-de-sac at the end of Sumac Street. I was in the basement watching a movie with my friend. My dad got home from work and said he wanted to show me something. We walked through the sliding glass door in the basement, out into our one-acre backyard. We walked about fifty paces to a part of the yard near the trees that had been experiencing flooding. There was an irrigation system comprised of gates and a glass graduated cylinder that stuck into the ground and pulled up water. We were talking about it, when we heard a wild commotion in the forest on the other side of the yard. We turned, and through the trees, we could make out two buffalo being chased by a pack of white wolves. At first, it was nothing more than a marvel to behold, as one looks at something far away and not personally concerning. Until a few of the wolves noticed us and broke off from the pack, running into our yard. I immediately climbed up onto a stack of cinder blocks, stacked about six or seven feet high. My dad stayed on the ground, seemingly not worried. The wolves bared their fangs and barked and growled. One of them circled around my dad’s legs. He didn’t move. Most of them focused on me, jumping up on the sides of the stack of cinder blocks, and biting at my legs. I was very scared, and that was the end of the dream.
Recorded in dream journal on: August 20, 2020
I dreamt that my teeth fell out last night. I spit a handful of molars into my hand.
I don’t think I am as worried about my appearance as I have been in the past. As I get older, I’m more concerned about my actual health, rather than just how I appear. I also have a girlfriend, so I’m not trying to impress other women.
Still, I think this is a sign of self-consciousness. Maybe it’s because I’m going to the hotel in Napa with K and her friends next month, and I haven’t gotten my hair cut.
I also dreamt of being in charge. I dreamt that I was in a board room. People were presenting to me and I was correcting them.
Recorded in dream journal on: July 17, 2020
I dreamt I lost my memory, from the 24th to the 7th; I can’t remember which months. Maybe from May 24th to June 7th. The dream was mostly in the context of work and high school. It was very emotional. When I realized on the 7th that I had lost my memory, I kept it to myself at first. Then I pulled my boss aside and I broke down. In the back of my mind, I thought it was because I had a brain tumor. This has always been a fear of mine.
Originally posted in dream journal on: July 23, 2020
I dreamt we were at a house in the country. We slept on a cot in the garden, K and I. My hand dangled over the side of the cot, and something nibbled on my finger. At first, it was non-threatening. Then, a larger creature, made mostly of zucchini, started to attack with garden tools like a shovel and an ax. Then it became more serious. The vegetable monsters proved very difficult to kill. We killed one and then fled into the house. There were others with us. We locked all the doors. More vegetable monsters had gathered around the house at this point.
Recorded in dream journal on:July 23, 2020
I went somewhere in my dreams last night. I couldn’t tell you where exactly. There were many places. At one point, we went to a house deep underwater. It was a very small house because, you know, real estate is very expensive at the bottom of the ocean. At one point, we discovered a passage in a dresser or a chest or some other nook or cranny. I say “we,” but I can’t remember with whom I was. But anyway, we found this passage in this small house at the bottom of the ocean and it led to a whole other place. There were more people there, which was very surprising because we thought we ourselves had made a very daring trip to the bottom of the ocean. How then could there be all these other people here? It did not make sense spatially, either. It is not easy to construct a house on the ocean floor. The house was, in fact, very small. And there were no connections to other places of which we were aware. Where then was all this other space coming from? I met a woman in this other place. I asked her a question and she said something that struck me as very wise. I cannot remember it exactly now. I asked her something alone these lines, “Why are you living at the bottom of the ocean?” She said, “Down here, we are living. Up there, you are …” And it was something else. Something that made me feel like I didn’t belong up there. That I should be living at the bottom of the ocean too.
I have had dreams like this before—specifically ones where you have to cram yourself through a tiny claustrophobic passage to get to a whole other wide open world that you didn’t even know existed. It is very much like Narnia. I wonder if that concept of traveling to another world through a closet was born from a dream. I don’t know what it means. But this morning I feel different. The only thing to which I can compare it is how I feel after I’ve travelled. Like the old world to which I return after is brand new. Everything I knew and felt before is behind me. I have travelled and learned something new and now things are not the same.
Lying safe and alone, I am unindividuated and idle. My mind swims in the stream of dreams that is ever less loosely connected to experiences from my own lifetime. There are added elements from movies, books, and my own imagination, scenes I have only seen or heard about secondhand. I pass through these scenes, sometimes as myself, other times as someone else. Sometimes I am no one, I am only observing what transpires without participating myself. In this way, dreaming teaches me how not to be myself. Such that I awake surprised, when I find myself back within my own body and mind. At first, I feel contained. I feel that my wide-open dream perception has been narrowed into a limited point of view. I can still close my eyes and imagine, but it is less powerful, tethered to awareness of being in my own body, tied down by the constant reminders from my senses that I am connected to a singular body in a certain location in a physical world—hearing the traffic noise outside, feeling the bed beneath my back. I cannot lift off and separate as completely as I am allowed in the dream world. For one, there is less ability, but I also experience less need. I am not yet completely myself, in the groggy moment between dream and waking life, I have not fully remembered who I am. It would seem just as natural for me to close my eyes again and slip back into the dream world, if not for hunger or the need to get up and go to the bathroom. At the same time, I am happy, having returned to the land of the living, as I know it. Able again to say good morning and have breakfast and go about the work which I left unfinished last night.
Noontime sun seeps in
Singing of searching
Clouded and loud
For thunder could not
Strike so straight
Turned away by light:
Things, bright things
Searching still
In this dark draped bedroom
Go back now light
From whence you came;
You will find naught
But darkness here
I wake up with my hand plugged into her heart like a battery. Her closed eyes staring past her eyelids innocently into the ethereal. My hand plunged deep into her chest in the dream world where skin is a permeable barrier. She breathes all the deeper, undisturbed. For a moment I feel as one with her not unlike the sexual encounter. It is as if we have both entered the dream world tethered together by skin. As if the dream world were a movie theater and we both handed the ticket man our ticket with the same seat number and proceeded into the movie theater to have the same dream at the same time and as the same person. I cannot feel where my fingertips touch her chest. It is like when your leg has fallen asleep and you can only feel above your knee. I can only feel above my elbow. The rest of my arm seems to be plunged into and past her body into the sleep world where my forearm and hand are cut off from physical sensation. My other hand cups her neck. We lay on our sides facing each other, an arm’s length apart, connected only by my two hands touching her, and some other link that goes beyond just skin.
I myself, was a potter
And my brother, was a poet
So we went to see a man
About some flowers
On the outskirts of town
We had already been
To the one man with flowers
Most well-known in town
In the morning
And had gotten two flowers
One for me
And one for my brother
And they were fine
But not exactly
What we had in mind
So we asked our driver
On our way back
If there were another
Man with flowers
Somewhere in town
And he said, “Well …”
And then he paused
“There is one other”
And by the tone of his voice
Like any fairytale
We should have known
To turnaround and go home
And be happy with our two
That we had gotten that morning
My brother, the poet,
Had heard the tone
And wanted to turn around
I, the potter,
Urged that we go on
And my brother, being the younger
Was forced to follow
When we got there
There was a large henchman
Seated at a long wooden table
In a larger open room
With a high ceiling
And a clutter of objects all about
We asked him to see the man about some flowers, and he asked us some questions that I now cannot remember. And our answers must have sufficed, because he turned and took us up the stairs that led to a small room in the back of the place, also cluttered with objects.
There was a man seated there, the man of the flowers. The second man of the flowers in town, or maybe the first—this we hoped to find out.
I told him sir, “We would like to buy two flowers.”
And he said, “Four.”
I said, “Beg your pardon.”
He repeated,” Four … that’s the minimum.”
“But the other man of flowers in town …”
“I’m not the other. I’m the only,” he interrupted me, without looking up from whatever he was tinkering with on his workbench.
I started to argue, but the henchman who had remained standing in the doorway stepped in and grabbed me gruffly, asking, “Do you know who you’re talking to?”
And what happened next will be hard to explain, but the long and short of it is, my brother the poet was turned into a pot to teach me a lesson about being greedy.
I was let outside and wept in the grass for the loss of my brother and learned my lessons once and for all about sacrificing the potter for the poet.
I had a dream last night
That I stained a shirt
With what I stained it
I can’t remember
But the shirt was ruined
And I was worried
About people looking at me
And the stained shirt
I was wearing
An open doorway
Into another room
Where daylight
Creeps beneath
The window drape
Does appear
Less dark
Than the lightless
Life here
On the sleepy side
Of the studio
Where the drapes
Are pulled tight
Up, I am up now
As surely as I said
I would sleep
Through the night
I am up now
Having failed
To fight off thoughts
That couldn’t wait
Until the morning
I stopped to ponder
Dangerously a dream
That, if left unconsidered,
Would have passed through
Perfectly in peace
To go on its way
In and out
Through each ear canal
Yet it was something
Shocking enough to stir
And once my woken mind
Got a hold
And seized it
Somewhere in the middle
Still in my mind
The gears start to turn
And the whole factory
Follows suit
Coming to life
In the middle of the night
For the first time
That I can ever recall
I met a man
Named Paul
That I could not recall
At the time
In a dream
Particular
Was this perchance
Precisely because
This Paul was a man
Who I was meeting
For the second time
When the first time
Was also
Only ever in a dream
So it makes sense to me
Now awake remembering
That in this second dream
Where I was in a golf shop
In rainy New York
Testing out clubs
With my friend John
And afterwards we walked home
In the rain
With our coats
Pulled around our necks
(I can remember
Now awake
With uncanny accuracy
That we seemed to be older
Than I am now
Here laying in bed
And also that a group of people
That we passed in the street
Were huddled under an awning
To stay out of the rain
Watching the news
On TV screens
And talking about trading stocks
(Such is my subconscious
Perception of New York
It seems)
So John and I
Make our way back to the apartment
And this is when I meet Paul
John and I
Are sitting at his kitchen table
Late at night
On a weekday
Eating pie
That he had left over
From a party
—I remember these details
Because John said to me,
In the dream,
“This is never something you would do,
Eating pie
On a weekday.”
And before I could respond
And tell John
How vehemently I agreed,
But this
Was a special occasion
—I prepared to tell him this,
I was thinking it,
I can remember.
And right then,
Paul came up
To the table
With another friend
Seemingly
From another room
Somewhere else in the apartment.
He and his friend were dressed
Like they were going out
For the night.
He came up
And slapped me on the shoulder
And said,
“Ho, Cole, how have you been?”
Which is when,
I looked across the table at John
And then back up at Paul
In confusion
As I thought to myself
That I had never met
This Paul before
And so wondered
Why he was now greeting me
With such seeming remembrance.
As they both perceived my confusion
And in the space of silence that lingered thereafter
Where Paul seemed to be expecting a greeting in return,
John stepped in and said,
“Cole, it’s Paul!”
I did not know the meaning,
At first,
Of John repeating
With more intonation
Paul’s name
As if that would be the cue
For me to remember
But I still
Could not recall.
Seeing my inability to remember
They all started to laugh
Even Paul’s friend
Who seemed to have no relation
To the situation,
As if they all together
Were in on some inside joke
That I was left out of.
When they had all laughed
And slapped each other’s shoulders
And wiped tears out of their eyes
John caught his breath
For one final try, and asked me again,
“Cole, do you really not remember?”
Remember what?
I thought to myself.
I felt like a man
Left outside in the rain
Looking in through a window
Into a warm and well-lit party
That I was not part of.
But this Paul was a cool cat
And he brushed it off like it was nothing,
My not remembering him.
He stepped around the table
To grab something from the cabinet
To eat on his way
To where he was going out,
This I can best recall
From the dream
From which I have woken
And am now writing.
It was then
That the mental event
In my own mind occurred
Which makes this a dream
Worth remembering,
And therefore writing—
For as Paul
Was walking down and out
Of the long hallway
In the apartment
With his friend,
It was then
That I suddenly remembered!
Paul!
Of course I knew Paul!
The last time I was in New York …
It was all coming back to me.
On another occasion,
I had visited John
And we were all going out.
We were in the living room
Of his apartment
And Paul was there too,
And as a matter of fact,
So was his friend!
We were drinking,
I was remembering
Within this dream
What seems to be
A memory,
Which at the time
In the dream
Seemed to me
To be completely organic
Just as anyone
Would all of a sudden
Recall a memory
That they had
For an instant, forgotten.
And so I said again, “Paul!”
But this time aloud,
And got up from the table
To chase him down the hall.
He turned on his heel
Hearing his name
And I ran down
The not so long length
Of the long hall
To give him a hug.
I could feel the extra mass
Added to his thin frame
By the winter coat
He had put on
To go outside.
He hugged me back
And then pushed me away
And laughed like before.
In the interchange,
Paul tried to hand me
A cigarette
That he had seemingly
Lit up
While he was still in the apartment
Walking out the door.
I tried to grab it
But missed
In the pinch between
Our fingers
And it fell on the floor,
Still smoking
Inside the apartment.
But this Paul was so cool
He didn’t seem to notice
Or care.
He would have just as soon
Gotten the pack
Out of his coat pocket
To light up another
Before bending down
To pick up the dropped one.
“There you go,”
He said.
“Now you’re remembering.
Not your fault,
I’m not offended.
We did feed you
Quite a few drinks that night.”
And this I could now recall,
If only in blurry pieces
How we had all drank together
That night in New York,
For my first visit
(This now,
Being the second).
Us four,
Including Paul’s friend,
Who I now assumed to be
John’s third roommate,
Had all had
Quite a good time.
“Well, I’ll see you next time,”
Paul said,
Now seeming
To be in a bit of a hurry
To get out the door
To wherever he was going out.
Hearing this,
John leaned back in his chair
From the living room
To poke his head
Around the corner
Into the hallway and say,
“You’ll be seeing him,
A lot more now,
Paul.
Cole’s going to be
Our fourth roommate.”
This must have been
The occasion
For my being
In New York,
I thought,
As John said this
As if it was news to me.
And that
Is the last thing
I can remember
From the dream.
Now I wonder,
Awake, as I write this,
If the memory
Of meeting Paul
For the first time
Was another dream
That I have had
Some other sleeping night
Out of my actual
Waking life.
Or, if it was a memory
Completely fabricated
Within that dream itself,
The one I have just had
And am now awake from,
Writing about it.”
For the feeling
Of having forgotten something
And then soon after,
Remembering all of a sudden,
Like a word on the tip of your tongue,
Or the name of an author
Whose book has come up in conversation
—That feeling
Was so real to me
In the dream,
That surely
That memory must come
From something else
At least as real
As another separate dream,
And not something so fickle
As a memory
Within a dream
—For then,
From what other world
Would come that memory?
A memory which has never
Seen the light
Of a real waking day
Nor the muddled dark
Of dreams
That are themselves
So often forgotten
But somewhere deep
In my subconscious
Are a subset of memories
Which I may never recall
As I remember things
While awake,
But may only ever recall
Within a dream,
Or not at all.
A daytime nap
Marries the motion
And light
Of the waking world
With the wonder
And formlessness
Of dream
Wherein the middle
Poetry lives
Dancing
Back and forth
In wheelbarrows
Full of dream
Dug up in sleep
And delivered
To be re-planted
Here in my bed
Brain tree
Putting down roots
I think of many
Horrible things
In my dream
So I’m happy
To wake
Relieved
Dark as night
Except for sun
So when to wake
Is clear as day
Not for nocturnal
Lights at night
Never sleeping
Up early to find
Sleepy nighters
Still stumbling
Soon to bed
In the daylight
Not right
Sleepy man of slumber
I wonder wakey-eyed
Do you step
With extra pep
After many restful nights;
For me I cannot
Sleep at all
As wakeful as I am
Up till dawn
And on and on
I cannot rest
I’ll do my best
To shut my eyes again
I wonder waking
Will I be
The same he sleeping
Dreaming
Of other lives
Living them
So sleepy serious
Feeling their fears
Scared to death even
And excited at their joys
These others
That are not me
But still are
In some way
What keeps me
From waking
As one of them
I do not know
Dreams
Of other worlds
Sometimes better
Sometimes worse
Than my own
Feeding
How much into
My hopes
And fears
Alike
I do not know
Exactly
Sometimes
There is something to be gotten
Just sitting here
Lying in bed late
Waiting or postponing
Whatever was planned for you
Awake and out the door
Against that schedule
Structure
Serendipity strikes
Requiring
A non-staunch demeanor
For once
To lift your head
Off the pillow
Just long enough
To turn off the alarm
And return to a dream
More important than reality
I am iffy
After a nap
Staring wide eyed
Woken
Too soon
From deep sleep
Jumped up
And almost fell over
Holding
My hands out
As stabilizers
Stumbling
Bumping
My shoulders
Against door frames
And hallway walls
Without my wits
About me
I woke up wobbly
Without my brain
When I realized
All of a sudden
That I was late
For a dinner date
And pulled on jeans
And snatched my coat
And slammed the door
And stumbled
Down the stairs
Shouldering the wall
For support
To catch the bus
And only when
I was finally seated
Did I get the chance
To be confused
About how to fare
In the fast-moving
Bright new scenery
Having been dreaming
Just moments ago
The above is the edited version.
The below is the original.
I woke up
Without my brain
Wobbly
Late
All of a sudden
I realized
For a dinner date
And walked outside
To catch the bus
Confused
And wondering
How to fare
In the new scenery
Having been dreaming
Just moments ago
I cover up
My colored soul
With sheets
To sleep
In the night
Woken
Wanting to
Start the day
But it’s too early
Needing to
Defer to dream
A little longer
I wake up
To write poetry
Like that must be
Why I’ve woken
With a full subconscious
Spilling over
Out of my ears
And onto my pillow
Wetting my cheeks
Waking me
I am cold
In bed
So I add a blanket
Then I am not
So I push the blanket
Halfway down
Then I am cold
So I bring it back
Up a quarter
Then am hot
So I get up
To gather
A thermometer
And ruler
To measure exactly
I wake up in the middle of the night, I think because of the steak I ate too late before bed. I have this energy now, as I digest, keeping me up. At first I am annoyed, wanting to get back to sleep. But then I think, I might as well take advantage of this energy and spend some time waking now, and then surely tiredness will come again, once I’ve digested and used up the energy.
in a dream, i was in class with my little brother’s childhood friend, christian. i was still the age i am now, while christian was the age i remember him—about 7 or 8 years old. i must have been acting as a teacher’s aide in his kindergarten class. at first, he was asking me whether he could bring a baggie or cookies to school. i told him that he should ask his mom or his teacher. he said they already told him no. they wanted him to eat healthier snacks like raisins and nuts. i told him he should probably listen. then he told me that he would just bring the cookies anyway and just sneak them at his desk when nobody was looking. i thought of telling him that’s what i would do when i was his age, but decided against it. next, the class was taking a spelling test. i was seated at one of the desks next to christian. there were about twenty other kids in the class. they all had their eyes closed. the teacher was going around the room taping up cards with letters on them. i gathered that she was spelling out a word that the class had attempted to spell on their tests (this way they could see if they had gotten it right). i watched this like a person out of place, bewildered at first, and then studying, trying to understand. when christian opened his eyes, he looked at the cards that were taped up. “got that one,” he said. i watched him make a check mark next to the word on his test paper. at that point, i wasn’t sure who i was anymore. was i christian’s age? was i a student in this class? the table’s turned and i started to ask christian questions. “should i be taking this test?” i asked him. “probably,” he said. and pointed with the pink eraser end of his pencil to a stack of papers in the middle of our desks. i grabbed one and a pencil, and then started listening to the teacher and looking around to try and gather what the words were that i had missed. it was right then that i started to feel out of place. i wondered, wait, who am i? what day is today? i remembered that i own an iPhone. and i thought, “oh shoot, what day is today?” i reached in my pocket to check my digital calendar. a feeling of dread came over me as i feared i might have missed my flight back to san francisco. then i woke up, back into my adult life, at 2:25am on monday morning. i felt relieved that i hadn’t missed my flight and wasn’t late to anything or out of place. i was just in bed waiting to go to work in the morning.
lately
i’ve been
going to sleep
early
just to dream
a little longer
a vivid dream
reminds me
of something i did
a while back
even though
i never did
actually do it,
it might as well
be the same
—a memory
misremembered
and a reality
recently forgotten
i wake up
with my heart
pounding
after a dream
of death
realizing this
will happen
someday
I keep having this recurring dream that I have missed a flight that I have paid a lot of money for. It upsets me and I wake up in a bad mood. I think it is because I am so conscious of being frugal and saving my money recently. I want to make economic progress for myself and for my partner. I am also worried about my job. I have worked hard to get into this position and I don’t want to lose it. I feel conflict with my lifestyle outside of work, both my social life and my artistic life. I struggle to maintain these other lives that are important to me but could be detrimental to my professional reputation. Like my friend Lake said, everything seems to matter more now. There is more at stake and more going on at once, and everything has to be balanced in relation to one another.
a short trip napped out
with clear tucked in
points of entry
and untucked exits
while all else
dreamed between
remains unchartered
tried to rise
but in that time
that i decided to wake
after i’d gotten
my head off the pillow
but sometime before
i could get my feet
on the floor
my body pushed out
of my tired mind
that waking thought
and here i am now
finally waking
but sometime after
when i first
tried to rise
how making
remember
when tired
that the morning
need is there
for you
to wake
sometimes
on time
open free
feeling
quite alright
after some time
in unconscious flight
woken with
a bounce
or a bump
and nothing at all
feeling closed
or impossible
quite yet
if the writers
keep writing
on the other side
of the muffled voices
apartment wall
and late afternoon
brunchers
and bakery
line waiters
all saying
some words
that spill into
my dreams
like sleep
is the drug
that does it
between dreams
needing
to forget
one world
to see others
so long
say goer
sent from
the dream
cherubs
that whisper
so softly
only sleepers
can hear them
writing best
between naps
like fishing
going under
to dream
and reeling
one in
above the surface
to unhook
and place
in the boat
then drop
the line
and re-enter
into
dream waters
and wake
with another
on the line
body boasting its soft round plumpness to soft sheets plush enough tilting the bed so you slide through the floor into the under dream world where you grow and sprout again into what mixes with your waking reality
i wake up
with a knot
in my stomach
that needs to be
untied
with some
deep breaths
the light hits
the window frame
just right
so the red and green
guide traffic
in my dream
in the dark nights
open mouthed yawning
dreamed upon
days not yet
woken
Return to the passions of sea that shape your soul / Drink from the plentiful water there and even drown and lose yourself if you need to / Leave some strength to swim back to shore where wild water passions find direction in river banks / Stand on land that holds strong and firm without moving in the short term unless you really dig your shovel in to separate the form it clings to
Where water takes only the small sleight of hand to empty a glass and have it all splash or spill out / Let the water hydrate your soil and birth your plans without drowning all life there / Passions of water that know no limits in nature, but in human form can only excite so much before we remember there is a code to survival
We can dance in the waves and swim out but only so far, not beyond a possible swim back to shore / And not so deep, longer than the rope that tethers us to the surface
We are amphibious creatures of both passionate waters and structured lands / Completely without one or the other, we would die
Passions of a dream, a dance, a night love in the dark—are beyond our defining / (illegible) that move and inspire action it has nothing to do with what we see cosmetically everyday—the buildings erected, cars driving, people going to work
—man living and doing what he needs to survive. None of this would exists without the dance in the dirt that we came from and the desires for more than just to go on surviving but to live in the moment in passions of ecstasy
—these are the short ephemeral moments that cause us to go on living and also to give our children the opportunity to do so; otherwise what would be the point?
in such sobriety everything is clear as it should be similar evening to the drug that distorts reality such that with the drug around you need edges but I’ve seen show shark sobriety sharpens the edges 13 so round allowing me to see wrinkles the hardwood floor in the end it screws noticing things I wouldn’t have before stopping on my walk home to start something I walked by $100 but not noticed is beautiful being myself as a human should be but losing touch with something more that being human prevents us from accessingAt least not consistently only allowing to see as recluses like a drug guy but in the case you’re going to give that up so Briody allows your godly version of being human.
I had a dream that I was sleeping coming in and out of dreaming and after each dream it would appear good to me like something that should be in writing and I would think of how to write it But I was so tired so I would fall back asleep before I could get up to write anything down and then wake up again having had another dream that seemed to me like it would be good in wiring – Only sometimes did i know, in my stupor, that i had forgotten the dreams before, while other times i would unconsciously descend into another bout of sleep while conjuring up the thought in words to be written and at the same time mustering the energy to get out of bed and grab my phone from the kitchen counter and having something to write it but not making it and falling back asleep.
all of this, happening and wondering – one, why could i not formulate the thought and get up to write it before falling asleep again, and starting to feel loss and disappointment that I could capture none of it while feeling that some of these dreams should have been captured; two, and this was a particularly peculiar part, upon the fifth or sixth or seventh or maybe 100th dream and really feeling A frustration at this point having forgotten so much and if it it had just been forgotten no worries fucking van combined with the fact that there had been something good that I had missed either because I could not write it and share it later on or because I could not even remember it myself and maybe relive it for even having seemed to have lived at once if only just by remembering it once; but now, I digress again, because what really happened is this.
I awoke this time differently still laying in my bed and trying to think of the words only to realize that this time I had awoken into my actual bed and a reality that is more real in each of the times and walking after the sixth or seventh or hundred dreams for you to realize that this time was the first time then I actually work in all the times before were dreams within a dream of me sleeping and going to sleep and dreaming and experiencing something that is very familiar to me which is living a dream wanting to write it and then forgetting it over and over again so now is the only time that I am in reality real enough where I can actually get out of bed and grab my phone off the kitchen counter and actually write it only now I can write nothing specific about all the changes and dreams and can only write generally – not specifically about any of the six or seven or 100 dreams that were each stories or ideas or things that needed to be put down into words that people have not found yet to formulate ideas that are you and everyone would explain are yes I have thought that before I just didn’t know how to say it this is what a writer really tries to get after after all. So explaining my disappointment for having lost all of it and feeling this to be not unlike living mini lives and dying and not remembering your former lives and not only having lost the memory to recall the life clinic 30 but sometimes not even having remembered it in the first place such that it is questionable whether you can even say what it was lived at all if you can’t remember it or another words if you never met entered your mind with any clarity at least once there is a tragedy here that is at the core of my motivation to write in the first place and that is the desire that things should be written down, recorded, preserved, allowed to live on, or in some cases allowed to live at all even just once.
Conversely the tragedy I feel as a writer is having lost. Having forgotten, having never gotten something in the first place having let something pass by or die or not otherwise made something live and be shared in touch first my own mind at least once but then many other moments and have lived in many other lives caring on it written word And creating imagination, fantasy idea, story, ideas the minds of others that are in someways each lives that are given the hour to need to live again again with each reader.
Somewhere from the night she visits me. Lady love and poetry when I need her most comes in through my cracked door and sleeps at my feet and waits for me to wake. Sometimes she’s not so patient and tickles my toes in the middle of the night. I wake and smile to see her like Wendy would smile at Pan. Oh lady, I’ve missed you, I’ll say. It’s been so long here in this factory world with its gears and mechanics, can we please please go off to your world tonight? Without saying a word she grabs my hand and holds back time like a bedsheet. Space and the mechanical world still seem to be there but the light is so bright that I can’t tell. We fly in the timeless night until I’m all empty. When lady love and poetry places me back in the mechanical world to charge my primitive batteries. And I wait for her to return.
Just when I think the poetry has dried up, and all I’ve left in my forlorn life is a trudging forward, just then I’m up in the night with flowers bursting from my chest. No soil beneath my rib cage and no sunlight in my room, but nevertheless here are these flowers brightening my midnight life and making smile a face that hasn’t in a while.
God, life is good and everything is alright, I tell myself. You just have to go through the bad times, I guess. Necessary lows for the highs. And as I’ve gotten older I get better at remembering this. A paradox where I can still enjoy the high knowing there will be a low coming, and paying my dues in the lows without hoping too much for the highs.
It’s only sometimes when I’m like a kid again and I get so silly high that I forget about anything and blow so much hot air into my own ballon that when I’ve run out of breath the fall back to earth has a hard crash landing. And when I meteor here, my impact drives me so deep that at first I know it is temporary but at some point so far beneath the surface I start to wonder whether I’ll ever rise again. So much time in the dark, cold cavern, and deeper, darker all the while, I can’t really help it. But boy, when I’m high up there, I don’t know if I’d change it for the world.
In the middle of the night, I can’t control my intellect. Healthier, I’ve found, just to follow along where my dreams and subconscious ideas have gone on their own throughout the sleeping night, like a child with my hand held by my parent, I don’t tantrum or run in another direction.
Often what is there is already there so that when I wake up in the middle of the night and start to write something exactly like this, all I’ve to do is start with the first words in my mind and the rest come tumbling out after due to no extra effort of my own. It’s all from what’s been done in my subconscious between 10pm and 4:30am.
Whereas the weirdest part, irksome even for a writer that tries to get down what’s good, is just how much I don’t recall upon waking, how many dreams I don’t remember but lived like my real waking life nonetheless. These forgotten dreams affect me surely but I do not know them firsthand. All I can do is write what there is and go back to sleep and wait for my parent to wake me again with her wisdom.
My mother was an artist. In her hometown she got sick and went to see the medicine woman in the fields. The medicine woman was there and my mother’s mother was still alive and she knelt there in the fields among rows of other people that had passed on. They all knelt down in the dirt on a sunny day. Here they came to life again, in the medicine woman’s field.
My mom was sick. You only went to see the medicine woman when you were already sick. If you were healthy, the dead would make you sick anyway. When you were sick already, it didn’t matter. My mother held me in her arms. I was sick too. I was a baby too young to remember this story.
My mother knelt in the field next to her mother, my grandma. My grandma knelt there in the dirt looking very somber and worn down by being in the sun all day. My grandma held a baby boy also. He was my mother’s baby brother, John. He would have been my uncle had he not died before he was one year old.
My mother knelt next to my grandmother and communicated via the medicine woman. My grandma whispered to the medicine woman and the medicine woman turned and translated to my mother. My grandmother, via the medicine woman, told my mother that she was proud of her. She also said, holding dead baby John in her arms, that I looked to be very healthy. I was a little younger than one year old at the time, just like dead baby John.
The medicine woman said that it was time for us to go. This did not phase my grandmother. She knew that it was as things must be. She maintained her same somber disposition. Her golden cheeks eternally tanned by the sun of the dead. She whispered one last thing to the medicine woman and the medicine woman turned to my mother and told her, “She wants you to know that she loves you.” My mother cried a single tear in the soil of the dead. Then the medicine woman said that we really must go.
She led us away from my mother and through rows of other dead people kneeling in the soil. We came out of the rows and reached a road and departed from the dead. In the real world, the fields of the dead were a gift shop filled with pictures. There were many aisles of framed pictures of deceased loved ones. They hung on the artificial walls like books sorted in the shelves at a library.
The medicine woman told my mother, earlier this morning I sold the first one of your mother’s pictures. She only has four photos left now and then she will move on from the fields and rejoin the sun.
Thank you, my mom said to the medicine woman, putting her hand on the woman’s shoulder. I will come back and see her again once more before she passes on. I will have one more question to ask her. Well, why did you not ask her today? asked the medicine woman. Because I don’t know the question yet, replied my mom.
The medicine woman smiled and said that she understood. With me as a baby still in her arms my mother said goodbye to the medicine woman and left the fields of the dead, or in reality, a picture gift shop where souls waited in purgatory to pass on into the sun.
In a dream, I played ping pong against a formidable opponent. I had played against this opponent many times before in practice and we were a good match. This game was for competition in an arena in front of many people.
When I stepped into the arena, I noticed immediately that one thing was different: the table was slanted at a forty-five degree angle. I played from the side of the table that was on higher ground. It was my serve to begin. I lost four of the first five points. Then it was my opponent’s serve. I lost the next two points. I threw up my hands in disgust. I shouted to the crowd. They were all children, sitting cross-legged and watching curiously like they were in school.
I shouted, “Why can I not beat this opponent? Who I have beaten before. Did he know ahead of time that the table would be slanted? And practiced beforehand.”
“No!” all the students said in unison.
“Because he is a more experienced player than me?” I shouted again.
“No!” all the students said in unison again.
“Why then?” I shouted back.
Then from the crowd, appeared an old sage, and he said to me, “It is because you are not a good leader.”
I was confused and silent.
“You must care for the bunny, before you get the bunny,” said the old sage [this is the only part of the dream I cannot remember word-for-word, it was something about a bunny, something that surprised me].
I had a feeling of deja-vu, like I had heard that before.
“What text does that come from?” I asked the children.
They all thought about it. One boy raised his hand and answered, “The Dhammapada.”
I had a dream that it was monday morning and I was riding passenger in my mom’s white suburban and all the kids were in the backseats. it was winter.
I was sitting in the passenger seat and thinking of a wild party that I’d been to that weekend. This was an example of a dream that spanned multiple days and nights and I could remember. As I was sitting there in my own world of thought and not paying attention, my mom put the car in drive and instead of putting her arm on the back of my seat to turn around and reverse the car out of my grandparents’ long blacktop driveway, she pulled forward and left onto the snow-covered lawn.
I asked her, casually, “What are you doing?” She responded, casually, “Getting the snow off the tires.” Now, this doesn’t make any sense. At the time, it made perfect sense. I only replied, “Be careful not to pull too far forward.”
We started into the grass, slow at first. But my grandparents’ lawn was sloped, and we picked up speed. I sat up in my seat and looked through the windshield. We were sliding forward. My mom no longer had control of the car. I started to become slightly worried. I thought we might crash into the thin wall of trees ahead. And we did. But this didn’t stop the car. And that was when I saw the icy frozen pond. And we were still picking up speed. And before I could think of anything else—to jump out, or save my siblings. We slid with such speed into the pond and then it was all so sudden and the icy water was over us with immense pressure and I looked upward out of my window to the icy blue above, unable to open the door from the pressure as we went deep deep deep.